Weight of I Do
The Covenant Behind the Vow
13 chapters that bridge faith and science, church and culture, the beginning of love and the fullness of it. Written from 38 years of living inside a covenant marriage — and coaching hundreds of couples through their own.
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What You Will Learn
The real difference between an oath, a vow, and a covenant — and why it changes everything.
The dopamine-to-oxytocin shift that every couple goes through — and what it actually means.
Why most cultural ideas about marriage were never designed to build love.
What Christ modeled for husbands — the standard nobody told you about.
How to communicate so your partner actually feels heard — not just talked at.
Why interest, not love, is what your spouse is really asking for.
How to stop losing each other in the children.
What covenant looks like on an ordinary Wednesday.
The 13 Chapters
Built for every season of marriage
Engaged couples preparing for marriage
Newlyweds building the foundation
Couples in hard seasons who need a reset
Empty nesters rediscovering each other
Pastors and counselors seeking a curriculum
Anyone who said I do without knowing what it meant